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Tuesday, April 2, 2013
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Frigidity 2
Namaste
He still wanted to know of the other proposals. The
perceived indecent ones. Well, they may not be indecent at all since we
are entitled to the way we feel and should by now be able to own our feelings
and not have outside influences make us feel guilty about them. But yes,
the indecent ones abound as suggestions, not impositions, so they are
manageable.
He totally understands the indecent ones as he had no difficulty imagining himself returning the massage, then inviting me to share the shower with him, then for sitting around nude sipping wine, then spending the entire night slowly creeping and crawling over each other in the name of love.
I told him not to worry, his wife may bounce back from menopause with such intense sexuality, she might need him to be the young man he currently feels he is, otherwise, she might have to go look for a younger man.
He totally understands the indecent ones as he had no difficulty imagining himself returning the massage, then inviting me to share the shower with him, then for sitting around nude sipping wine, then spending the entire night slowly creeping and crawling over each other in the name of love.
I told him not to worry, his wife may bounce back from menopause with such intense sexuality, she might need him to be the young man he currently feels he is, otherwise, she might have to go look for a younger man.
And we talked about how right it is for an older man to have a
young wife. Marrying one’s peer only works for youth, but when age steps
in, so too does the gulf that separates each other’s desires. Had he been
about 20 years ahead of his wife, her current low libido may have been the
ideal match for the frequency of his erections which would have worked out
nicely for both of them. But the attention he pays to his health makes
him ever ready to respond to Yin energy. Well, not any kind. He
does not see himself soliciting the services of a prostitute.
Though, if he meets a prostitute in a different social setting
and she appeals to him, he has no qualms with banter than leads to conjugal
relations. Understood. And none of this would in any ways reduce or
taint his feelings for his wife. She is the First Lady, which means she
should know that there is possibility of there being a Second Lady, Third Lady,
etc.
And like most First Ladies, she knows her place. He is thankful. The monogamy thing really isn’t for every man. Some men are born wine-tasters. They go from vineyard to vineyard shaking glasses, sipping, gargling, and savouring the different tastes. In these days of the ‘independent woman’ many men are being paid to do this; some women are even out-paying their competitors to have the wine-taster to themselves.
And like most First Ladies, she knows her place. He is thankful. The monogamy thing really isn’t for every man. Some men are born wine-tasters. They go from vineyard to vineyard shaking glasses, sipping, gargling, and savouring the different tastes. In these days of the ‘independent woman’ many men are being paid to do this; some women are even out-paying their competitors to have the wine-taster to themselves.
Anyway, being female, and on the ground that that which ails his
wife is common to many women, I’d like to dwell on the issue a bit. At
this stage she is having the night sweats and hot flashes. I do recall my
mother talking of having to change her bed-gown in the middle of the night and
the bed sheet each morning because the place was so hot that her side of the
bed was soaked.
With all that sweating my mother’s weight did not budge.
Apparently the heat was never great enough to melt the fat. You could not
pinch her. She was that compact. Now it’s different. She has
changed her diet and lost some weight, but she is still solid. The
headaches are another thing some women experience. They are triggered for
no reason and insist on driving you mad. While every woman experiences
menopause differently (some become ill unto death), it is generally agreed that
the hormonal changes at puberty in no way prepares a woman for perimenopause.
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